All Posts

There are days I look at all the things I’ve started—the dreams, the planners, the tabs open in my brain—and I wonder if any of it will lead to something solid. If you’re like me, especially if your brain is wired a little differently, you might’ve been told that starting too many things is a flaw. That branching out is a sign of inconsistency. That you need to "pick one lane" or else you’re being irresponsible. But then I open Ecclesiastes 11, and it feels like God is gently

For a long time, I believed the same story many of us were taught. If I just tried harder. If I stayed consistent. If I had more discipline. Then things would finally change. But over the years, both personally and through walking with other women, it became clear that this story doesn’t hold up. Not in real life. Not in tired bodies. Not in nervous systems shaped by stress, trauma, or neurodivergent wiring. Most people don’t struggle because they don’t want change.